Being a Father, Trusting the Father

thoughts from the house of mourning

Oh, Eva, Eva, my sweet daughter. I so want to talk to you, and I so want to talk to other people about you. My heart is torn and empty and full–all at the same time. How can that be? I know that you fell into the arms of your loving heavenly Father when you died 14 days ago, though how I wish it were my arms. Maybe it’s okay that I write a few words to you, and maybe it’s okay that I let other people hear what I want to say. I don’t want to brag about you, which you would not have approved of. I want to shout out about the joy you brought to me and Mom and Christopher and so many others.

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A Prayer for Easter, Resurrection Day

[Download PDF of A Prayer for Easter, Resurrection Day]

Almighty God,

On this day we rejoice in the glory of resurrection.
The tomb is empty.
Death could not hold the Lord Jesus. His body saw no decay. His enemies did not win. The earth could not contain him.
We are emboldened by the power of resurrection.
We are encouraged by the hope of resurrection.
We are enlightened by the truth of resurrection.
So help us, dear God, to have a daily expectation that we will encounter the living Lord Jesus wherever we live.
Help us to live in submission.
And empower us to bring this message of resurrection into every dark and desperate corner of this world.
In the name of the resurrected Lord Jesus.

A Prayer for Lent, Leading Up to Easter

with downloadable PDF "printable prayer"

[from Prayers for Our Lives: 95 Lifelines to God]

[download a PDF “printable prayer” version here]


In the days leading up to Easter we want to contemplate and understand more fully the suffering death of the Lord Jesus whereby we are forgiven and his glorious resurrection whereby we are empowered to live.

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Praying for Refugees

Their plight is in the news--let's pray for them

A temporary ban on refugees being admitted to the U.S. has put the spotlight on their plight. Few of us know what it is to lose our homes, our friends, our land, our belongings, and any sense of security. To lose identity, and dignity. Let us pray for the refugees—men and women, boys and girls—wandering the earth…

A PRAYER FOR THE POOR AND DOWNTRODDEN (from Prayers for Our Lives: 95 Lifelines to God)

[download a PDF of this prayer here]

“The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind,
to set the oppressed free,
to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”
Luke 4:18-19

Gracious Lord in heaven,

When we consider the misery and suffering of so many millions of people in the world today, we are overwhelmed

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The Passing of a Saint

reflections on Win Couchman


[from Whole Church]

Occasionally I go to Bob and Win’s house to have them pray for me. I feel greedy doing so, because I know that even without that request, Bob and Win pray for me every day. And I mean pray. They talk to God the Father and Jesus and the Holy Spirit; they pour out their hearts. That has to be one of the main reasons they are the compassionate, generous people they are. They look at other people, and they see, with a precise vision, their real need. And they see the grace of God all around.

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A Prayer for Thanksgiving Day

from Prayers for Our Lives: 95 Lifelines to God for Everyday Circumstances

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Philippians 4:6

Dear God,

You have invited us to give you thanks, and this is what we wish to do. We are living in a time of great anxiety, but you have offered us a way out of anxiety. We long to know your loving care.

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Make or break: will we get good spiritual leadership today?

Why vast numbers of believers must exercise spiritual leadership where they live.

There is a view of leadership today that is disappointingly simplistic: merely getting people to do things. Many are successful in their efforts. They can get people to give money, attend large meetings, vote a certain way, develop a group identity, even to sacrifice. These are good things, but are not the apex of what Christian leaders are called to do.

A higher view of leadership includes higher purposes. This leadership aims at great aspirations, brilliant ideas, and high ideals. It aims at the betterment of people—their character and dignity, not just their pocketbook and status. It is committed to transformation. This is spiritual leadership—spiritual because it is empowered by the Spirit of God and its ends are spiritual vitality and growth. And the amazing thing is that God uses us even in our brokenness and sinfulness to lead people toward this transformation.

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Suckers and Presidential Debates

a non-partisan comment on our political process

A sucker is born every minute. Supposedly P. T. Barnum, the ultimate circus showman, said this, though no one can prove it. All I know is this: I just don’t want to be one.

And yet, in this political circus in which we find ourselves, millions of people are being played as suckers. But it does not have to be.

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Praise to Christ the Lord

from Prayers for Our Lives: 95 Lifelines to God for Everyday Circumstances

It is easy to say we want to be Christ-centered, but the way we think and behave betrays the fact that we are most often Christian-centered. Churches that are only church-centered will never be Christ-centered. The remedy, in part, is to reserve time, energy, and desire, dedicating them to contemplating and worshiping Jesus Christ every day. This prayer, “Praise to Christ the Lord” (text and audio below) uses the seven “I am” passages in John, and other New Testament texts. (From Prayers for Our Lives.)


Audio version, read by Alice Kinyua of Nairobi, Kenya –


Praise to Christ the Lord

Lord Jesus Christ, we adore you and praise you. Where would we be without you? We long to live in your glory and your goodness.

You identified yourself with God the Father when you said “I am.” You explained your life and purpose by saying…

“I am the bread of life”*—and so we know we live through you.

“I am the light of the world”—and so we no longer live in the darkness of evil and ignorance.

“I am the gate for the sheep”—and so we know we are protected from spiritual predators.

“I am the good shepherd”—and so we are well fed, and led, and protected.

“I am the resurrection and the life”—and so we can live above the fear of illness and death.

“I am the way, the truth, and the life”—and so we see a clear way forward toward abundant life.

“I am the true vine”—and so we know staying connected to you is the most important priority we must have.

Lord Jesus, you are “the author of life.”* You came so that we may have life, and have it to the full.†

We can stand before God the Father because of your great sacrifice. You made peace through the blood of your cross, in order to reconcile all things to yourself. ‡

We are overwhelmed. We are in awe. We are humbled. We wish to worship and follow you all the days of our lives. We want to know you—yes, to know the power of your resurrection and participation in your sufferings, becoming like you in your death, and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead.§



*The 7 “I am” passages are John 6:35-51; 8:12; 10:9; 10:11-14; 11:25; 14:6; 15:1-5.

* Acts 3:15

† John 10:10

‡ Colossians 1:20

§ Philippians 3:10-11


How to Influence People FOR GOOD

a serious exploration of the topic of spiritual leadership today


Today we’d like to invite you to a learning experience aimed at helping you have an enduring and deep influence in your work, your family, and your church.

This is simple. We’d love to have you join in a serious exploration of the topic of spiritual leadership today. To join in you just need to do two things:

STEP 1: Get the newly released Zondervan paperback Spiritual Leadership Today: Having Deep Influence in Every Walk of Life* HERE or at the online source

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Be the first to know…

“Spiritual leadership means awakening people to the creatures they really are in Christ. It is like rousing armies of people who are asleep to a great work they must do.”

Spiritual Leadership Today


Later this month The Brook Network will offer an online leadership development seminar with Mel Lawrenz for church leaders, parents, educators, leaders in business settings, healthcare workers, community leaders, etc.

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Dignity Now

Why is this not obvious?

Ninety-nine percent of a human body consists of six elements: oxygen, carbon, hydrogen, nitrogen, calcium, and phosphorus. The remaining one percent consists of minor elements and trace elements. If you purchased these chemicals on the market, you would have to spend a bit more than $100.

Most of us believe people are worth more than $100.

Yet not everyone. The Nazis considered Jews, homosexuals, Poles, mentally ill people, and others to be of no worth whatsoever. Of negative worth, in fact, worthy only of extermination since they were viewed as a net deficit in the human race.

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Crisis of Dignity

an opportunity for moral clarity - Op-Ed in the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel

The acts of violence we are witnessing, and the political acrimony we are experiencing have much in common…

Blood on the ground produces panic and confusion and rage, but is also an opportunity for moral clarity. We are watching it all right now. The blood at a traffic stop, the blood of assassinated police officers, the blood of men, women, and children run over by a terrorist driving a truck.

Moral clarity begins with the question of what preceded the blood.

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Lessons in Prayer, part 3

A barber asks his pastor how to pray

Clip, clip  Snip, snip. Clumps of thick Saxon hair fell around the man’s shoulders and dropped to the floor. The barber, one Peter Beskendorf, engaged his customer in one more conversation about spiritual matters. “Pastor,” he said, “how should I pray? How long should I go on? What exactly should I say?”

We don’t know what the man in the chair, Dr. Martin Luther of Wittenberg, said, but we do know that Peter Beskendorf’s questions prompted Luther to write a small book called A Simple Way to Pray.

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Lessons in Prayer, part 2

Prayer as Spiritual Awareness

[In the light of recent tragic events, there is a “Prayer for the Nation” (video) below.]

[This is part 2 of Lessons in Prayer. Part 1 is here.]

When we speak to God a certain awareness of our relationship with God is pressed upon our minds and hearts. It begins to happen the moment prayer begins. It is rooted in the profound fact that we are actually speaking to and listening to Almighty God. Slowly, incrementally, with each passing day, with each sincere prayer, we are rehearsing certain truths about our relationship with God, not just because the truths are verbalized, but because they are enacted. Through the progressive soul-shaping dialogue with God we gain a spiritual consciousness that we are under God, we are with God, we are in God, and we are for God.

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