What is the difference between “speaking out” and merely complaining? (from Mel Lawrenz’s sermon, “Called to Speak Out” – online Monday evening, Sept. 30).
• Am I just venting feelings?
• Am I making this issue about me?
• Have I thought through what I want to say 3 times?
• Have I checked with someone else?
• Am I standing for principle?
• Am I speaking respectfully?
• Am I repeating myself too much?
• Am I trying to manipulate a situation?
• Am I clear in my head about my responsibility and the responsibility of others?